This is how the system treated me, and overwhelmed single mother.  I have been being harassed with Children’s Protective Services for years.  When my ten-year-old daughter was a baby, I took a trip with her to Pennsylvania and was even visited by CPS there. That case was instantly closed when the claim was found to be not true. As a single mom with mental health issues, I struggle every day.  People and the system seem to want to always compare me to a 2-parent household.  The comparisons are too overwhelming on top of being overwhelmed. The system likes to say / treat me as a neglectful and abusive mom. A minor verbal argument with my teenager becomes me being abusive.  Refusing to continue being treated like a maid to said teenager is me being neglectful.  Asking said teenager to watch her sisters so I can have some time is also neglectful.  It is also overwhelming while I am already overwhelmed but mental health.  Woman’s Co-op started off as court order.  In the end it became the place I learned things. A place to vent and ask for advise without judgement.  A place that helped me to grow.